Army brats are so glamorized these days it’s ridiculous and I feel stupid that I almost fell for it. Having a child when your husband has to feel guilty and worried is selfish, I understand if you a “lifer” but if you are you know the deployment schedule so just wait, use some birth control and wait. I am not judging anyone, obviously your husband is cool with it since he helped get you in that situation, but it’s just all these young girls who are playing housewife and having kids instead of preparing for them seem so disappointed later.

Someones status on facebook was “google image your name and see if pictures of you show up”, I google my husbands name and a bunch of tombstones marked “Tillman” show up … I know its because of Pat Tillman but it’s upsetting. 

• Year 1 - Get a dog 
• Year 2 - Aaron’s deployed / I graduate Dental School 
• Year 3 - Aaron gets out of the Army, starts going to college / I start working 
• Year 4 - We get a house, Aaron graduates, starts CHP / Maybe have a baby ? … I’ll be 26 or 27 by the time we “have time” to get pregnant. I don’t know how I feel about that. 

I wish people wouldn’t hate on guys who are uncircumcised so much. After sharing with my friend that my husband is uncircumcised I was told how gross and dirty it is. I love my husband and every part of him, I don’t hate on your husband’s man hood so stop hating on mine. His dick is a god ok?!